At a Cuddle Party, a trained facilitator leads you and the other guests through a welcome circle and orientation, (like a very short workshop) where you’ll learn to make easy, respectful requests and communicate clear boundaries, and where we'll go over the simple rules. Then you'll have plenty of time to relax, chat, cuddle, have a snack, or just hang out.

Cuddle Party is a non-sexual event! Everyone remains clothed in pajamas and agrees to the Cuddle Party Rules, which include, among others:


* Arrive on time for the welcome circle/orientation.
* Ask for what you want and get a verbal “yes” before proceeding.
* You don’t have to cuddle anyone you don’t want to, or anyone at all, ever.

Some people really love touch and can’t wait to be in a place where that’s OK. Others aren’t sure they want any touch at all, but come to learn communication skills. Most folks are somewhere in between. Some are just curious about what it might be like. Whatever your reasons, a Cuddle Party is a great playground for discovering more about yourself, for learning to connect with others, or simply enjoying a relaxing, cozy evening with other cuddly souls.

Most Cuddle Parties have a balanced number of women and men, (about 10-20 people) and are held at a private home here in Seattle. They last about 3 ½ hours. Sometimes we host parties for particular groups, like women only, or seniors, or singles. We ask for a donation to cover expenses. Adults only (18 and up).

You don't have to come to our party - we can come to yours! We can run a private Cuddle Party for your birthday, fund-raiser, or social group.